Wednesday, 31 October 2012

道歉啟示 An apology to my friend

我的朋友,我說話非常直接,也高估了自己對你的了解,我自信以為可以暢所欲言的時候,我天真的忽略了你的感受。我們在whatsapp爭論的時候,我承認自己有情緒失控和生氣,言語和內容上沒有顧及你當時的想法,同時亦缺乏去了解和消化你所說的。

我對剛才說的話你造成了不安,構成的傷害,我對你說對不起。也許,我這句對不起不能彌補甚麼,我希望你知道我一直珍惜你是我的朋友和你聆聽著我的故事。既然大家對某些事情的看法分歧太大,我承諾,不再胡亂回應你的狀況。

My dear friend, I really overestimated my understanding on you.  While I was overconfidently discussing you, I simply ignored your feelings.  I admitted I was losing patience and getting anger as we were texting on whatsapp.  Both my wordings and contents didn't respond to your thinking appropriately as well as didn't digest well on what you said.

I apologize on all the discomfort, frustrations and confusions arising from what I said.  I am sorry.  Perhaps, this "sorry" won't make up anything.  But I sincerely hope you understand I always cherish you as my friend and appreciate you to listen to my stories.  Since our point of views towards a matter is diverging into extremes, I promise you here NOT to have any further responses and comment on the same matter.